Sometimes, when a relationship fails, we ask ourselves questions like, “Why, when everything went so well?” But are you sure everything went well? Today we will discover some behaviors that will help to predict that a relationship will fail.
Conditions do not fail overnight for no apparent reason. There are some behaviors that we have performed without realizing how harmful they are.
Let’s see what they are.
Behaviors that will predict that a relationship will fail
1. Criticism of your partner
One of the first behaviors that can help predict that a relationship will fail is when we criticize our partner for how they look, drive, the clothes they wear, how they talk, etc. Our criticism has a goal: to change the other person. This is something that will never be possible, but it is an attempt to manipulate the other person and turn them into someone they are not.
If we do not like them for who they are, we have two options: accept it or let them go. However, criticizing them is not an option.
2. The other person insults you
Does your partner make fun of you? Does he or she humiliate you from time to time? If this is how you feel, but you do not know what to do, do nothing to solve the problem. Sometimes our partner has a way of making us feel hurt, but we let it go in the name of love.
The most likely reason we do this is because we suffer from emotional dependence. Because of that, we do not know how to say, “I do not tolerate this, I go.” It is important that you remember that you must have respect in a relationship. If not, there will no doubt be another behavior that will predict that your relationship will fail.
3. It’s always the other person’s fault
Among all the behaviors that predict that a relationship will fail, this is one of the clearest. This is when the blame is always given to someone else, which means that the person never takes responsibility.
Let us imagine that a woman blames her partner for putting his feet on the table. She blames him for it, when in reality they have been together for two years, and she has never asked him to take his feet off the table.
Who is really to blame?
It is very easy to blame someone else, and not just for things like this, but for other things that we do not realize. The woman should have made it known from the beginning that she did not like it, but instead she tried to get her partner to “guess” that something was bothering her.
This attitude is not right, and the woman should take responsibility in the situation so that she can learn from it and apply this lesson to future problems.
4. Silence and indifference
It is a type of attitude that is quite toxic and that is intended to manipulate the relationship. In this case, we are talking about silence and indifference. Actions such as blaming or criticizing can make someone be quiet and indifferent to “punish” their partner. This attitude tries to make the other person give in, as well as treat them without any respect. When our partner tries to punish us for saying what we think or what is bothering us and they punish us in silence, then it’s time to leave the relationship.
5. Our partner forces us and demands things
This has a lot to do with unconditional acceptance that we talked about in the beginning. Forcing and demanding certain things from our partner is one of those behaviors that predicts that a relationship will fail. We can not force and demand anything from our partner. They are a free person that we must respect without making any attempt to manipulate them according to our whims.
If this happens in your relationship, you should reconsider it. Manipulative attitudes are highly toxic.
Have you experienced this type of behavior that can predict that a relationship will fail? By detecting them in time , you will be able to put an end to the situation before it leads to even more damage.